Monday, March 31, 2014

Back to Shanghai!

This past weekend from the 21st-23rd we had District Conference in Shanghai! All previous trips I have just been a follower, but this trip I was basically put in charge of planning. Holy cow, that’s stressful. I had to know where to go, how to get there, and what we were doing, how long everything would take, and how to say/write it in Chinese so that 8 of us girls could get around in the middle of Shanghai all on our own. I spent days planning and communicating with other planners in the ward. We got sleeping arrangements all figured out in members’ homes around Shanghai and I had cute little itineraries written up for all the girls of how to get places from their member’s home and where to meet and such when last minute the ILP director from Utah emailed me and said, surprise, it has been a long standing policy that ILP volunteers can’t stay in member’s homes. What?! I had even checked for that rule in our handbooks! So then I had to undo all that I had done and email all of the coordinators and the members to cancel our plans. Another bummer about that was that the previous weekend us girls had gone shopping in Shanghai and thus were hoping to spend as little money as possible the weekend of District Conference in Shanghai. But now we had to do some last minute booking of hostels and extra expenses of travel to the hostels and food.

We took the cheapest train we could so it took us 4 hours to get to Shanghai. My seat was separate from everyone else’s and it was right next to the bathroom and smoking place on the train. Great. It wasn’t any better that the old guy, who’s seat faced mine, stared at me the whole time until I finally put my head down and slept. Oh, so I had to go the bathroom but I knew it wasn’t going to be very sanitary so I just put on my big girl panies and went into the bathroom. The second I looked in I just chucked to myself, “Oh boy, here we go… peeing into a hole in the nasty tiny room on a movie train. Yay for adventures!” Basically now I just laught when going into somewhere or doing something gross. After returning to my seat and giving myself a bath with sanitizer and we wipes, I attempted to go back to sleep to avoid the man’s stare. Luckily, a seat opened up next to the rest of the group where I could sit and be with them. They had made friends with 4 Chinese girls that were around our age. Those girls were so much fun! We had a ball talking with them, taking pictures with them, exchanging stories, exchanging contact info, etc. One of the girls loved us so much that she asked to get pictures of kissing us on the cheeks. It was so fun, I love making friends with the Asians!

One of the train stops took and extra long time and none of us knew really what was going on. It wasn’t a big deal though until we got to the Shanghai Railway Station and found out that the delay and delivered us just late enough that the Metro Station had closed. What? So it was 11:30 and we needed to get to our Hostel. By the time we realized what to do and started looking for a taxi it was 11:45pm, which wouldn’t give us enough time to even get to our hostel before it closed at midnight. Great. So now 8 tired girls didn’t have a place to stay, at midnight, in the middle of a huge city in China. I had days worth of planning but I was not prepared for this! We wandered the streets for a bit while frustrated and a little panicked until I remembered why we were even on this trip! We huddle together and said a group prayer for comfort, protection, and guidance. After that we felt a lot more confident and knew things would work out. We looked around for something familiar and found the big H for Holiday Inn. Ok, long story short (of wandering some more, getting split up, and debating calling the members at 1am) Holiday Inn was WAY above our budget so we had to take a taxi (my very first taxi ride!) to the Holiday Express where they referred to get a MUCH cheaper price. That night we squeezed 5 girls on 2 pushed together twin beds, 3 girls in another room, and got 5 hours of sleep until we woke up at 6:30 the next morning for the YSA tour. That in itself was an adventure but again, long story short, we met up with lots of other YSA at the Qibao, Ancient Water Town and had a fantastic time. There were museums, gondola rides down the canal, tons of street food, so much shopping, fun, and new friends. Then we all headed to the adult session of the District Conference, which was fantastic as well. It was REALLY nice to see so many people I recognized from the branch, other programs, and other people from our program from other China cities. I knew so many names and we all had so much to talk about! That night there was a YSA in the same building with dancing, games, and snacks.
5 girls on two twin beds pushed together. Best slumber party ever!
The gondola ride at Qibao.
Oh boy, this was an adventure-ful weekend. The fun doesn’t stop there. When we left the dance, us girls decided to get a full body massage because 1. Asians would be PRO at massages 2. It would be so much cheaper than the states 3. It would be a once-in-a-life-time type experience 4. We were physically exhausted and in need. It was super awesome, but not going to lie I’ve had better ones from my brother and guy friends (just on my back and shoulders though, mom!). I can’t be the best judge though because I totally zonked out in the middle and come to find out I totally snored through half of it. Whoops!

When we checked into our hostel we found that our reservation for the second night had been canceled because we hadn’t shown up for the first night. So 6 of us shared 3 beds in a 6 person room because the other 3 beds were taken up by strangers and 2 girls shared 1 bed in the 8 person room…. Except that 3 of our girls actually got in late and none of us heard them knocking so they slept outside on the porch. Yea. But now they have a good story! The main session of the conference was absolutely wonderful the next morning. Then they fed the YSA homemade lunch that many of the ladies had put together which was like Thanksgiving/Heaven. After that the YSA had a Devotional put on by a guy from Germany about how to stay positive and continue to be an example of the Savior through trial and tribulation.
All in all it was such and incredible weekend and every little bump along the way was worth it! I love this gospel!


The "chapel/meeting room/dance party room" for the District Conference. There was a stage in front of tons of chairs and hidden rooms all around the main room.

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